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There was somewhat a mild drama at the Ejigbo Police Division after a pregnant wife dashed to the station in tears seeking police protection to prevent her husband from beating her further over sex in Lagos State, western Nigeria.  The police arrested the man and committed him to sign an undertaking not to beat her again before he was released on bail.  The embittered woman, Ego Ahahuwa, reported to the police that her husband, Obioma had subjected her to constant beating over her refusal to have sex with him because of her pregnancy.She said she was afraid he would kill her one day if she continued to keep silent.  The couple who hail from Umuahia in Abia State, resides at Alabi Oyo Street, Bucknor Estate in Ejigbo area of Lagos, from where she ran to the police station.  The mother of two kids alleged that her husband became hostile to her after she became pregnant which will be their third child against his wish.  She denied that she delib...

A Lugbe Grade 1 Area Court, Abuja, on Thursday dissolved 10 months marriage between Usman Aisha and her husband, Ibrahim after the wife complained of being starved of sex.  In his judgment, the judge, Mr Garba Ogbede, said that the marriage had broken down irretrievably and efforts to reconcile them proved abortive.  “Since both parties consented to the dissolution of their marriage, this court has no choice than to dissolve the marriage.  “The couple can no longer stay together because the marriage has broken down totally; both parties are no longer husband and wife, they are free to go their separate ways.  “Both parties are to keep the peace all the time; any violation of the order should be reported to the police for redress,” Ogbede held. Aisha of Aco Estate, Airport Road, Abuja, had approached the court for dissolution of the marriage because Ibrahim refused to satisfy her during love making.  She said that she spend one month wi...

John Ayoade, a 42-year-old man, has begged an Alimosho Customary Court sitting in Lagos State, to dissolve his five-year-old marriage to his wife Deborah Oriade, for fear of his life, citing her brutality and maltreatment. Ayoade who narrated to the court how his wife had taken on the habit of beating him at will, said she had beaten more than 10 times, even in public. According to the complainant, on one occasion, Oriade attacked his m*****d until it started bleeding and not yet done, she dashed into the kitchen, brought ground pepper and poured it on his bleeding joystick. “I didn’t marry her legally. In fact, I’m married. I have my first wife. Deborah and I were only dating. We met at the Sawmill where we both sell building materials. She always comes to my shop to complain to me about her former husband. It was in that process I developed interest in her.” Ayoade continued that two years into their relationship, Oriade came to tell him that she wa...

– My husband betrayed me on my wedding night – My chief bridesmaid tasted what was meant for me only – I need advise before I do something crazy I burst into the room and met my husband and my chief bridesmaid making love It was my wedding day and we had ‘fulfilled all righteousness’ required of us by the church and the tradition. I had danced vigorously at the reception just so my flexible husband won’t outdo me. This got me too tired (I didn’t know why Anthony, my husband wasn’t tired) that whe n we finally got to our hotel room and all I wanted to do was just to shower, cuddle up a bit with my Anthony and then go to bed. My husband wanted otherwise. He was bent on us (I, himself, Tolu, who is our chief bridesmaid and Osas, our groomsman) going out to have few drinks before we finally retire to our hotel room.  The bar my husband wanted was not even close to our hotel. I decided to make him see reasons he should let  us stay in our hotel...

Picture is Zimbabwean MP Joseph Chinotimba and his wife Vimbai who kissed their way into the book of African Records, the Associated Press news agency reports.  The couple scooped the top prize after kissing for a record 10 minutes and 17 seconds at an event in the capital, Harare, dubbed “The Longest Kiss in Africa Challenge”.  It was organized by the Book of African Records as part of Valentine’s Day celebrations on Sunday.

I have been dating Jide for a little over 2 years now. Some months ago, we were watching a movie where one man expressed his interest to watch his wife being sexed by another man.  During the movie, Jide said it sounded like fun. I did not take him seriously so we just changed the topic. About 2 weeks after that, while we were making love, he made the same request. He said he would like to watch me being f**ked by another man. I still chalked it up to dirty talk and let it go.  The issue never came up again, until last month. We were having a discussion about sex and I told him I really like it when he spends time giving me oral. He now said something like “you want me to please you sexually but you don’t want to do what I want.” I asked him what he meant by that and after some prodding, he finally told me that he said he wants to watch another man with me and I ignored him. I said I didn’t know he was serious, and that it is a very strange request. The whol...

A lot of Nigerian men will simply groan at the mention of Valentine’s Day and may never figure out why women make so much fuss off the day.  The fact that they have to buy most of the presents, pay for the dinners and be on their best behaviours makes it even worse for them to understand why Valentines Day exists at all.  1. The Attention. They Get African couple hugging Whether women admit it or not, Valentines Day is the day women rate how much their men really appreciate and care for them. It is also a day women know their position in their man’s life. So if your boo has his own boo, that is the day to find out.  2. Gifts  Most Nigerian women are probably somewhere carefully counting down to the amazing presents they will get from their man (or men as the case may be), because in Nigeria, everybody knows men are traditionally expected to buy the presents why the women are meant to simply look beautiful and accept the presents.  3. Propos...

Dabota Lawson has officially filed for divorce from her hubby, Prince Sunny Aku.  Anonymous sources close to the couple informed reporters that the marriage took a turn for the worse after the cheating scandal involving Dabota Lawson erupted last August.  The source futher stated that Dabota was feeling caged in the marriage and has lost her personal freedom and identity.  It was alleged that Dabota’s movement was also heavily monitored after the cheating scandal. In the divorce papers, The Ex beauty queen sited irreconcilable differences as reason for divorce.  In a suit filed at the Lagos high court, Dabota stated that Prince Sunny Aku was married legally to a certain Mrs Chioma Aku and that she was not privy to the marriage.  And so the cookie crumbles See the divorce papers below

I have been married for a year now to a man that is very unattractive. I married him for two reasons. 1. My younger ones and friends were all married and I was desperate at 32. 2. He treats me well He’s a good husby but I sometimes get ashamed walking with him because he’s very ugly. I’m a pretty girl and when we are in public he’s all over me wanting people to know we are together and I see the looks they give us. I don’t mind sleeping with this man and being his wife, I just want the feeling of shame to stop.I know some men don’t treat their wife well and I feel lucky mine own does that.

I newly married this beautiful young lady in her late 30’s, and was shocked with what i saw with my eyes the first night of our wedding, she ended up messing up my newly purchased bed which i bought to appease our marital life. Had i known she was a baby adult, i wouldn’t have gone into this marriage with her. No wonder she wouldn’t agree to sleepover at my place while we were dating…  I never knew there were some skeletons in her cupboard…After i noticed the drained bed on our first night together, she ended up giving an excuse that maybe she had drank so much water during the day/stressful day. But ever since, she as been urinating on the bed. We end up going to spread our bed outside everyday to get heated by sun… I believe our neighbors would have started suspecting something of such nature due to the usual sunning of the bed.  Fellow men, I love this lady that’s why i married her but i don’t know why she dey piss for bed. Our marriage is just a we...

In a bid to curb the rising HIV infection rates, Swaziland has initiated a programme to actually pay teenage girls R200 (US$20) to abstain from sex. Even though the tiny southern African kingdom is known as the country with the world’s highest infection rate per capita, this does seem a little extreme.  According to a report by South Africa’s The Independent, the World Bank will finance the programme.  “The government will pay girls the allowances so they will have money to purchase necessities and can turn down money offered to them for sex,” said Thabsile Dlamini, a health care worker in Manzini.  A pilot programme will be conducted to test the effectiveness of the initiative and ensure the girls will not have sex after they receive the money.  The initiative, however, has its critics. Some have accused the king of wanting a whole nation of virgin women from which he will choose in additions to his 15 wives. Seriou...

Nollywood star actress, Genevieve Nnaji will be 37 this year and time is no longer on her side. The Nollywood superstar has finally decided to marry this year. The actress, who is also a mother of one, is set to marry 29-year-old film maker Alhaji Ishaya Bako. Rumour has it that Genevieve is bound and determined to be Mrs. Bako and that she really want to be wedded in 2016 so badly. The duo first became friends after the Imo state-born actress moved to Abuja from Lagos Island base about two years ago.  They’ve worked on quite a number of projects together, with the latest being the critically acclaimed movie ‘Road To Yesterday’, which was directed by Ishaya Bako. Genevieve Nnaji has previously been linked with several high profile and showbiz personalities including D’banj and Ramsey Nouah.

In from Ify Chiemeziem . . . My friend is going to Lagos next week, I advised her to go with her husband. Why? She asked me. ‘Because of the terrible traffic jam,’ I replied. She didn’t understand me but I was willing to explain. If you stayed somewhere in Okoko, in Lagos, and you want to go Lekki, be sure to waste close to three hours in a horrible traffic.  In fact you can comfortably take two rounds in the back of your car while waiting for the traffic to ease up. Just imagine if your husband wasn’t there. You can’t finger yourself for three hours. Then, if you decide to rush down from Lekki to Jibowu for a meeting like I did, then prepare to suffer another grueling two hours on the road. Enough time to execute a full blowjob, a cunnilingus and maybe a quick doggy too. Whether you shagged or not, by the time you get to your destination, your makeup is all wiped off from your face due to frustration. You are all sweaty, even ...

It is no news that sex is one of the most craved activities among people around the world today, and there are a number of reasons for this among which is the health benefit that comes with sex.  Now that we have established that sex is important it might interest you to know that there are specific positions that get the ladies moaning nonstop and wanting more and more of the action. But how much of these positions and sex techniques do Nigerian men know about?  Here are six awesome sex positions you could try with your lady today. Rest assured that if well done, these techniques have the potentials to keep her optimally satisfied.  1. The ‘Grab And Insert’ Position – Majority of ladies like a fit, muscular guy. You don’t have to have the biggest arms in the world but stay fit and trim enough so she can rest on you, jump on your back from time to time and whatnot as you guys hang together and pass time.  This physique is also important in s...

My name is Emem, a 28-year-old woman who has been married for six years. Initially, everything was rosy and my husband, Patrick, never gave me a breathing space when it came to sex.  As a sexually active woman, I enjoyed such attention and always looked forward to them. But in the past one year, things have changed so much that I have become so frustrated because Patrick starves me of sex.  It gets so bad that I will be lucky if we have sex once in two months. When it first started, he always gave the excuse of being tired and stressed up from the office but this was the same office he worked in when our sex life was at a premium.  Then it dwindled to a situation where he gets irritated whenever I touch him. I have practically had to beg him to make love to me several times to no avail.   I suspected he is having an affair and my fear was confirmed when I went through his phone and saw many raunchy text messages from differen...

Oral sex is when the genital is sexually stimulated with the mouth. During my radio show two nights ago, I got calls from listeners who expressed their worries concerning oral sex. Some men felt that the odour oozing from their wife’s thing could only be breached by the penis and not the mouth. Well, I gave them a simple solution. Garlic can solve whatever smell coming from there. Peel a garlic and stick it into your wife’s vagina all night, it’ll kill all smells, and you are ready to eat pu**y without hindrance. Some callers also asked if oral sex could help women who had experienced genital mutilation in the name of female circumcision to enjoy sex. I replied yes. It could. Since it was the clitoris that helps to arouse a woman that was cut off during circumcision, it is difficult to enjoy sex. But then, her labia is still there and other parts of her vagina which can be stimulated during oral sex since the mouth and hands are used. A caller al...

Postinor 2 is a medication to prevent pregnancy if you shine the sperm into the ovary, whether intentional or not.  It can prevent pregnancy 95% in the first 24 hours after intercourse, it is used as a form of emergency contraception (more commonly known as a morning after pill). Postinor-2 is formulated to function in a manner similar to the female hormone progesterone allowing for prevention of pregnancy if taken within a reasonable period of time. Generally, it is recommended that Postinor-2 be taken no later than three days after having unprotected sex. EFFECTS OF POSTINOR 2 When taken in the middle of the menstrual cycle, the preparation may inhibit ovulation. The pill can cause changes in the menstrual cycle in the lady. Your next period could start earlier or later than expected and flow can be lighter or heavier than normal. It can cause nauseating feeling which occurs in approximately 25% of users vomiting It can also bring about b...

An Ibadan-based trader Latitaf Adeleke has asked a Mapo Customary Court in Ibadan, to dissolve her marriage with Adetola Adeleke, over alleged sexual starvation.  Latifat, a trader and mother of two, on Wednesday asked the court to end the nine-year-old marriage after declaring that she was “totally fed up."  In her petition to the court, Latifat alleged that Adeleke, a spare parts dealer, aside from neglecting his traditional responsibilities of catering for her and the two children, had no time for her.  “Adeleke has over three to four years now, failed in his responsibilities as a husband towards me and as a father to his two children. “The worst of all, my Lord, is that he has kept away from having sexual intercourse with me which greatly saddens my heart. “We no longer stay together and the bond of love between us has disappeared,” Latifat declared. Adeleke, who denied all the allegations levelled against him by his wife, however told the cour...

I have known her for sometime now. I met her on my way to work, we got talking and exchanged contacts. She calls to find out if I have eaten, and I am like 'yes'. ' What did you eat' I ate rice. This she tries to find out everyday until she asked to see and taste the rice I prepared at home.    I understood she was looking for a way to visit. Finally she visited, didn't want hear anything about work or even the rice she wanted to see, but to watch some stuff on my laptop.  She calls me to sit beside her. I did! She chuckles and places head on my shoulder, I tried to offer her something but she refuses.  I observed that she drew closer at each chuckle Before I could say jack robinson, she was all touchy and started kissing. I wish I could upload the pix of my mouth, she bit my lips and apologized. Why i asked? She said she couldn't control herself. She literally asked me to have sex with her and I refused on the grounds I just can'...