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Mr. Sima Guje from Guyuk LGA of Adamawa State is appealing to well meaning Nigerians to help him find his daughter, Blessing who was kidnapped by one Bilhadi Yakubu in 2010. Below is the full statement posted by Ena Ofugara...  "Mr Sima Guje hereby appeals to Nigerians to help him recover his daughter BLESSING (NYIMJIR) SIMAN, Born 13th June 1996 who was abducted by one BILHADI YAKUBA alias Dan Daura since September 2010 at the age of 14years in Connivance with the Chief Judge of KUJE Upper Area Court and Police Authorities who exhibited lackadaisical attitude towards his plight.   The said daughter Blessing (Nyimjir) Siman who was a Christian and JSS 2 student of FHA Junior Secondary School Lugbe, Airport Road Abuja was renamed Kadijat by her abductors and forcefully converted to Islam.  Although Mr. SIMAN reported the matter at the Lugbe Police Station, the Police couldn't help him because the young girl's abductors summoned him at the K...

 When Libby Appleby, 37, was going to have her twins, she was told that her unborn babies would look so similar they would need to be “marked with ink” to tell them apart.  But like the saying goes, man proposes but God disposes, it turns out otherwise that though the two girls shared the same egg, they came out totally different as one of the twins (Amelia) was born with dark skin, black hair and brown eyes, while her sister (Jasmine) has fair skin, blue eyes and mousey curls.  But, amazingly, the two twins are genetically identical as predicted, but God already provided the ink to mark them differently, physically. Amelia and Jasmine are reported to be the first of their kinds in UK.  Though their parents are of different racial backgrounds, but it is very rare to have twins of different colours. “Amelia was so much darker than Jasmine, they barely even looked related.Doctors told us the chances of conceiving mixed race twins are one in a mi...

This is a sad story of a young girl being abused by the son of a rich family that helped she and her mum: Dear Sir  After my father died four years ago, his friend has been the one supporting my mother and I. Last year, our landlord gave us a quit notice and my late father’s friend offered us accommodation in his home.  He and his wife were very kind to us. I was very happy and comfortable with them until their son returned from the U.S. He pressurised me to be his lover and I told him that wasn’t possible.  He eventually r*ped me and deflowered me in the process. I told my mum and she said I shouldn’t ever say anything about it again... Because my mum didn't say or do anything about it, now he wants to have carnal knowledge of me at the slightest opportunity. I’m scared and don’t know what to do. - Janet, 19

This is a pathetic, yet compelling story of true love and commitment, shared by an anonymous reader. We have changed the characters, out of respect for the grieved and dead person. This is a tear jerker, but you decide: “Jebose, in life’s drama, there are no rehearsals. The realities of living, loving and existing just hit me.  I am navigating through a hectic and wicked Lagos traffic, laced with confusion, arrogance, stubbornness of road users and abusers.  “I am on my way to the Murtala Muhammed International Airport, Lagos, to take delivery of the corpse of my dead “lover and future husband”. His body is arriving unaccompanied from Atlanta Georgia. He promised to marry me: It was the only promise I believed from the sea of hunters of my love and marriage proposals which came these few years.  “I am in my early forties. After this heartbreak, I may not know how to find my life again. I am afraid of this thing called love. My heart is shatter...

A teenager has revealed how he was raped several times while in Kirikiri Prison. The teenager, Bashua (surname withheld), said that the incident happened in 2014, when he was just 16-year-old. He said that the policemen doctored his age, to ensure they arraigned and sent him to prison. Bashua had recently regained his freedom, through the intervention of the Stephen and Solomon Foundation, a Non-Governmental Organisation (WHO).  The foundation is led by Mr. Giwa Amu, a Lagos-based human rights lawyer. Bashua, a secondary school student, said he was returning home from a coaching class when he was arrested by a team of policemen.  According to him, he was later charged to court for an offence he did not commit. He said: “I was remanded at the Kirikiri Prison and experienced being locked with over 100 inmates who were older than me. I was molested sexually. I was raped several times in a day. They would tell me not to cry. I was in remand for one mo...

Ken Davidson is shattered and that is because his 25-year-old cousin, Doyin Sarah Fagbenro, who just finished two law degrees in the UK has been killed in Lagos by a danfo driver.  See the moving tribute he wrote for her: DSF: Tribute To A Shining Starlet. Oh death! Where is thy sting? O grave, where is thy victory? Another Casualty of a broken and failed State. Your story is particularly Gut Wrenching as it is equally heartbreaking. You spent near enough all but two of your 25 years on earth in the Country of your Birth, the United Kingdom where your Parents and entire family reside.  You were born, bred and educated in the United Kingdom. But two years ago, immediately after you graduated, you elected to visit Nigeria where your Grandparents reside – both of whom are in their Mid Eighties. You signed up for the National Youth Service having freshly graduated with a sterling First Degree in Law and a Post Grad immediately afterwards....

A 16-year-old Junior High School student shocked parents and police officers at Akyem Tafo District Police Command in Ghana when she openly admitted that she consciously allowed two Senior High School students to have sexual intercourse with her in a room.  According to Ghana’s Daily Heritage newspaper, she also denied the parents’ allegation of being gang raped by the students.  Three second cycle students of the Institute of Professional Studies at Akyem Kukurantumi in the Eastern Region were arrested by the Kukurantumi Police for allegedly gang-raping the 16- year-old Junior High School student.  The suspects were arrested late last year, but were later granted police bail after the shocking revelation by the victim.  The Daily Heritage gathered that the parents of the victim reported to the police that the three suspects had gang-raped the victim after holding her hostage for days.  Police investigations led to the arrest of the su...

Am a Nigeria girl based in the UK and I have my papers with the home office expecting my stay, but I have been using someone else papers to work to make a living for myself pending the time I would get a reply from the home office. My husband based in Nigeria b4 we start dating I let him know that I am not British citizen that I am just expecting my resident permit but I didn't tell him I have been using someone else paper to work to strive a living for myself.  we both have a 10months old baby on resuming back to work cause have been on maternity leave my manager tell me that I can't use the paper anymore as it has expired . I explain to my husband and he said I deceived him cause me using another person paper to work without tell him his called deceit.  please I just want ask your reader Did I deceived him as am really getting confused.

I am a 36-year old woman of Yoruba descent currently single. My unwarranted urge for sex has intimidated many of my lovers who have capitalized on flimsy excuses to opt out of the relationship.  I am fully aware something is wrong with me but when events play out, I lose control of my caution buttons. My problem started when I was severely raped by a gang of 4 fierce men at the tender age of 14. The awry event took place at the Ebute Metta area of Lagos one fateful night when my mother sent me to purchase some items at the Oyingbo market which was close to our house then.  It is an unforgetable experience as my clothes were torn into shreds with blood dripping down my legs. I watched my rapists disappear into darkness without any punishment. Neighbours sympathised with me but that the situation was irreversible. A year later, my sexual consciousness woke up.  I started by sleeping with a National Youth Service Corp, NYSC member in the ne...

Life may be tricky sometimes. I’m a single mother with two lovely daughters.  Two guys are in love with me, one is a divorcee and the other is a single guy.The divorcee loves me so much but I can see some domineering traits in him. He is the type who will wait for a return of all he has invested in me if things go wrong .Nonetheless, I know he loves me but I can’t settle for what he has to offer.  Here is another, a young and single guy,who has promised me heaven and earth except that he doesn’t not spend a lot of time with me.Whenever I feel lonely and horny, this divorcee guy is always available to meet my sexual needs . But whenever I have sex with this man ,I feel guilty that I have betrayed the single guy. I don’t love this divorce guy but he is trying everything to prove he can be there all the time . On the other hand, I connect well with the single guy,we talk so much about our future plans and so on ,but time is a barrier . I have tried...

On thursday I hurriedly went to see my sister.  Before crossing over to the new year, and also to fulfill my big brother role of giving her some cash to celebrate the new year wth her friends as I gathered earlier that they will be visiting a popular beach on new years day. As I got to where she stays wth a friend of hers, I noticed my best friend and my sister came out of the building, side by side and both of them had sweat on their forehead and my lil sister's hair was a lil rough. I added 2+2 together and I started to figure that they jus had sex.  after he left I called my sister aside and asked her,what he's doin in her place and she made up a story,which I didn't show her that I doubted and she said they didn't have sex when I tried to ask her  stylishly, buh I feel they did, could I be wrong.  pls help me!

I am twenty seven years old and I recently got married (few months ago). Before I got married, my sole priority was to remain a virgin. Not because I wanted to per se but you know how parents pride themselves with the whole virginity thing.  Back then, I was so scared of losing my virginity that I didn’t even use tampons for fear that my hymen would break.  Ignorant me right?In my second year in University, according to my dad, I started dressing like a “University babe”, so he went as far as taking me to a hospital for a virginity test. Fast forward years later, I got married as a virgin BUT now that I am willing to let go, I am pretty much paying for all the time wasted to get it done which has resulted to me being extremely scared to have sex.  Whenever my husband makes an attempt, my body becomes rigid instantly and I end up running out of the bedroom.  It is so bad that I cannot even get naked in front of him or see him naked. Whenever...

For the four years Lisa was married to Lekan, she tried all she could to get pregnant. At first she thought it was due to her reproductive organs malfunctioning. After series of tests, it was Lekan’s turn to have his fertility investigated. It was an awful blow to the couple when he got the news he had a low sperm count.  “Lisa was devastated,” Funke, her elder sister and a mother of three children had said after she got the news: “I wish I could do something to help my sister…” “Do something like what?” “Get another man to perform the magic her husband couldn’t?” A few months later, Funke had come to me, a bit angry and confused.  “Lisa came for dinner last night with Lekan,” she said. “I was in the kitchen sorting out the dirty plates when Lekan crept up behind me, pressing hard against my back, he whispered: ‘Don’t you realise how much I want you?’ Horrified, I pushed him away and rushed back to the others. I’d thought that would be the end of it, but it...

"Something has been weighing heavily on my mind and I don't know how to send it in. My husband can not sleep if he doesn't suck pussy.     It's a serious habit and I have learnt to live with it.  We have Been married for 2years now. If he travels, I go with him just cos of this. We don't have kids yet. When I'm on my period we make arrangement for a girl he can suck before he can sleep. The girl comes to the room, get on the bed and after sucking her and she cums my hubby will sleep off there and she can go to the guest room.   I once arranged for one girl but she doesn't have clitoris cos of circumcision so it was hard for her to cum so hubby was just like a crazy animal that night, he just kept twisting his finger inside her vigorously with his mouth stuck on her labia and his leg was just twitching, still she didn't cum. I had to take her back and that night went out to look for someone.    When I came back witho...

Just Felt Like Sharing This with you all... A MUST READ TRUE LIFE STORY My name is Peter, I'm 42 years old i work in an oil company, i was given 26million Naira cash late evening (after the close of bank)for a contract.  I never knew it was a set up.  My manager set me up so that i will be killed and the money recovered for him. When i was sleeping something came to my mind and i left to the toilet to ease myself, as i was in the toilet i heard my wife shouting ‘he is not at home and he didn't sleep here today, please have mercy, i beg’.  Then i pick up my phone and called the police from the toilet and my house was surrounded by the police men, the armed robbers beat my wife until she told them where the money is. Then they ran outside with the money, and they ran into the police. They were shot three where dead andpp one was taken to the police station. They confessed that my manager sent them to kill me and bri...

If you're having a long day, or you just need a funny story to laugh wherever you are, then we have you covered today.  After the jump is a really funny and interesting true life story that a blog reader sent to us about "A True Life Story of A Unilag Undergraduate". It's really really funny actually and we expect it to make you really happy wherever you are. See the story after the jump: Tuesday morning, Shodeinde back then in Year 1.. Yuk I was in the toilet *winks* that morning smiling and rapping some lines of my song... "Lobatan" in jumbles "Even when I drop sh*** it still smells right Ma Flows don't sag, lyrically am uptight If rap was a church my lines would be Deeper Though am Off KEYS I still sing better than ALICIA ..." Wheeeeew!! Today was going good at least not to mention the usual "aroma* (lol) of shodeinde's Toilets and environs. My classes would be rounded up by 12... I smiled, I remembered Topsy th...